As my first blog post about the topic “Marriage
and Family: In-Tact,” I thought I would begin by looking at the benefits of an
intact family in comparison to that of a divorced or unmarried family. The article
“Benefits of Family for Children and Adults” describes the multitude of
advantages both children and adults receive as being a part of an intact
family. Some of the advantages include
fewer behavioral problems, better results academically, and healthier romantic
relationships in the future for children. Although it
is often thought to be beneficial for the couple involved to not to be married
or to divorce for the well-being and happiness of the family members, these
actions have a profound effect on all people involved. The article speaks about the psychological
effects being married can have on both the mother and the father. The results of the studies taken show that
married mothers are more inclined to create a better environment for their
infants and are less likely to experience violence or abuse in their lives. Some of the effects being married have on
fathers included better psychological well-being and more time spent at home
with their children, which is also beneficial for the children. The benefits for children in an intact family
are greater than those of the parents.
Some of the other advantages for children talked about in the article
include better emotional health, a safer home environment, and the tendency to
be more religious in adulthood. Some
connections made in the article that I found interesting were the connections
between sexual activity and substance abuse in teens and their link to marriage
and family. The article describes that
teens that have dinner with their family at least 5 times a week are less
likely to be involved in substance abuse than teens who have dinner with their
family only two nights a week. The
article also explained that teens in an intact family are less likely to be
involved in sexual activity than teens that were not living with two married
parents. I found this article very interesting and I believe that these are
only some of the benefits for children and adults in an intact family. The article talks more about the statistics
of these benefits compared to children of unmarried or divorced parents and
provide valid points for why intact marriages and families are positive for all members.
I agree with your view on in-tact marriages. I feel that if the family is together and getting along, the children have a better chance of being able to sustain relationships with other people. Their parents could be an example for them and role models. However, if the parents are fighting and truly are unable to hold the family together anymore, I think that divorce may be the best option. It would relieve tension caused by constant fighting, and it would make the children more aware of struggles people could be faced with later on in life. From personal experience, I know that having dinner with your family more than 3 or 4 times a week makes you feel like you have a better, stronger relationship with the members of your family. Your parents could feel like friends as well as authority figures. I do agree, though, that many more advantages can be seen with in-tact marriages rather than divorced.
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